Hope everyone is having a good Sunday. We will always do our best to bring you great design and lifestyle content every day, but please know that in weeks like these and in the many before, we are all deeply affected by what’s going on here and abroad. If you feel the same, we are with you. Be safe, and let us all take action in any way we can. Ok, here are this week’s links for a little needed lightness<3
From Emily: I am IN LOVE with this drawer and car vacuum. I honestly didn’t know that I needed it. I thought it would be another appliance that I’d buy and store, but I’m stress cleaning my house this January – every drawer, every cupboard, and I’m using it all night and through the whole weekend. I even used it in my freezer – to get into the corners where little bits of breaded chicken nuggets got, and I can’t get out with a rag. I used it in my vanity, and it picked up all my rogue hairs and tiny bits of who knows what in my deeper drawers or in the back of the cabinet. It is rechargeable and has only 2 parts. Don’t get me started on my spice drawer!! Now the suction isn’t so high that I’d recommend it JUST for cars, but certainly works (but if you are a consistent car detailer, then you might want something stronger). IT also engaged my kids a lot as they helped with the “great January re-org” at the Henderson house. I read a lot of reviews, and there were many that were much more expensive or some that were oddly cheap, but at $38, it felt like the right amount for an investment. Now I just need to invent an apron that has a pocket big enough that I can keep it on my person all weekend long (think like a pistol holder, but for a small vacuum).
On that note, if you are purging and in Portland, I have a FANTASTIC new place for you to give your used home goods to (and not just gently used – they’ll take most things!). Community Warehouse is a massive bank of home goods that serves people transitioning out of homelessness. They work with their caseworker to come in and shop (for free), and they need everything- yes, used mattresses, used Tupperware, dishware, sheets, towels, furniture (obviously), art, lamps, working coffee makers – all the things that you might donate to Goodwill. But don’t donate there (Goodwill is fine, but its for profit). This serves our local community, and they make it SO EASY. There are three locations – NE Portland, Tigard, and Gresham- and you don’t need to make an appointment. AND some of the better stuff (vintage or just new and nice) goes to their estate retail thrift store, and it’s LEGIT good. The profits from that go to support the massive overhead they have. I’m so grateful to know about them. OH, and they’ll pick up larger pieces of furniture for $50, which is WAY less than even going to the dump. Community Warehouse, folks. It’s where it’s at (and hopefully more to come with them this year – we are trying to figure out the right way to collaborate to help these families outside of just donating all our leftover goods from shoots).
Also From Emily: In case you missed it, yesterday we soft-launched a more personal newsletter that Brian and I are co-writing (separate posts, but doing it together). While some personal stuff will always live here (highlights, struggles, AMAs), if you want to get even more personal, that would be the place. You can sign up for free for a week to get the first two posts to make sure it’s something you want to spend your $5/month on. Head over there to check it out if you are interested. xx
From Cailtin: Are you freaking out? Does everything feel terrible? TRUST ME, I GET IT. And I have a nice, accessible, quick read to recommend: the aptly-titled Reasons Not to Worry: How to Be Stoic in Chaotic Times. I’m a big philosophy dork, albeit not usually too into the Stoics (I’m more of a Platonist fan – this one from Boethius is my all-time favorite!), but the title jumped out at me at the bookstore for obvious reasons. It’s relatively breezy, it’s very easy to read – I was able to focus on it, even in the chaos of a hospital! – and it made me feel a little better (or, honestly, maybe even a lot better?) about the world spinning out of control around me. You’ll fly through it in an afternoon or two – think of it like a beach read, but a beach read that might prevent you from having a mental breakdown. I think we could all use a little wisdom from the Stoics right about now, don’t you think? (And thank you all for the kind words last week. They warmed my heart more than you’ll ever know. I’m so grateful to have “met” all of you over the past 6.5 years!)
We thought, since there are a fair number of you that aren’t on Instagram, that we’d start embedding some of our favorite posts we created here! Our social team works so hard to also create helpful, fun, and interesting content, and we don’t want you to miss it either. Enjoy!
All of our jaws DROPPED when Emily unveiled this incredible new piece of art she recently got. We all want it!
Remember Robyn’s beautiful living room and dining room reveals? Well, this is a little “start to finish” carousel of photos of those projects:)
Finally, a little celebration of the blog’s 16-year anniversary, here’s a great reel about the wild and wonderful journey<3
From Mallory: I find that large coffee table books are some of the most necessary items in a home, but are also the most annoying to buy. So I was absolutely THRILLED when I received 3 amazing books as gifts!! The Studio Shamshiri book, the Pierce and Ward book, and this AD book are now my favorite books on my coffee table. They’re all substantial (which is oftentimes the hardest to find) and are filled with the most amazing photos and stories. I highly recommend these if you’re in need of some big styling books! And PS – you can also buy them “new and used” on Amazon!!
From Gretchen: One of my goals for the new year is to get my headstand back. I’ve been practicing yoga on and off for years. Pre-pandemic, I was a yoga fiend. I was so dedicated to an almost daily practice, but when all of my favorite studios fell off as the world shut down, I lost a ton of progress. In the last year, I’ve really re-committed. I’ve been going back to my favorite hot yoga studio roughly 3 times a week. I feel like I’m almost back to where I was…except for my headstand. So to practice at home, I went ahead and invested in a headstand chair. It’s not the most beautiful piece of functional furniture, but I do like that the cushions come apart and back together again to make it a regular stool, should you happen to need an extra seat for a guest or meditation or whatever. But it works as advertised, is quite comfortable, and feels very durable! And it’s nice to feel safe while I practice going upside down again. Another funny plus is that the box it came in ended up being the perfect weird skinny size to store my large wooden snowflake decorations. If you caught my post on Tuesday about DIY storage ideas, I ended up decorating the box this arrived in and now use it to store some of my Christmas stuff. I painted it baby blue with a red snowflake, and while it’s a little dumb, it makes me happy to reuse something I would’ve otherwise thrown away:)
One more thing! I want to give a big THANK YOU to all who shared such helpful comments on last week’s link up in regards to my morning headaches. Not sure if my upside-down chair is going to help or hurt my progress with this, but it’s great to have a bunch of your helpful suggestions in my back pocket the next time I have a flare-up. You guys are the best!
From Marlee: I’ve never been real big into setting spray when I do my makeup – to be honest, I was skeptical of it and felt like I didn’t do anything that would require me to use it. In my head, it was only for celebrities on red carpet events when there’s hot lights melting the makeup off their face. After buying the milk hydro-grip primer spray, I get it now. I’ve been using this on nights out, basically anytime I’m applying blush, concealer, and any bronzer, etc, this stuff is amazing. Not only does my makeup actually last the entire night (normally I feel like my blush has disappeared after a few hours), but it also leaves me with such a nice dewy glow. It doesn’t feel sticky or stiff at all; it just sort of seals everything in. I’m a fan! You can use this both before and after putting on your makeup – I love the Saie dewy gel as a primer, so I’ve just been using this as a setting spray.
From Jess: In case you’ve been waiting for a sign to start a retinol or just don’t know where to start, I have used and love Shani Darden’s Retinol Reform. Here’s a video podcast of Shani being interviewed about all things skincare and her award-winning retinol. I used her orgininal formual for since 2020, then took a little break after I had finished my last bottle to try the awesome Allies of Skin Multi Peptide Growth Serum. I really love them both, and since Shani changed her retinol formula to make it even better, I’m just going to trade off days between the two. Or once I build up my retinol tolerance after a few weeks, use the growth serum in the morning and the retinol at night. We’ll see what works best! PSA – If you use retinol, you HAVE to wear sunscreen. Sara Tramp told me before I originally started that if I didn’t wear sunscreen, I was going to cause way more harm, and it would be pointless. Just so you know<3
Also From Jess: In a time that feels and is extremely scary, donating to organizations like this one is so important and does make a difference. If you already donate but can afford to tack on a little more, now is the time. That’s what I did. It’s not all we can do, but it’s something, and it helps.
From Arlyn: For day-to-day stuff, I still very much find my Lululemon Everywhere bag incredibly useful. Except that sometimes, I just need more space to carry things like stacks of my daughter’s library books, my actual full wallet, snacks, etc. So for Christmas, I asked Santa for a large canvas tote bag. I had had my eye on the famous L.L. Bean tote, but it was backordered in the color and size I wanted. After some research, I found that Land’s End had a very similar tote, so I added that one to my list in the zip-top design and large size. Um, I LOVED it. It ended up being so much better than L.L. Bean’s because that one doesn’t have any interior pockets, while this one has great organization. The zip-top prevents things from falling out when I inevitably have to bend over to pick something up while carrying three other bags (#momlife), and it’s so well made. TBH, I loved it so much, I immediately ordered one in a different color (olive) in the medium size for more everyday carrying, because the large is VERY large and better for traveling. It’s on sale right now for under $40. HURRY!
Thanks for spending this time with us. Hopefully, most of us get the holiday off tomorrow, but let it be a time for some reflection, given the man we are honoring. Peace, equality, and everything else we hold dear as a country doesn’t happen without action. We will see you back on Tuesday. xx
Opening Image Credits: Photo by Kaitlin Green | From: A Beautiful Bedroom Makeover Reveal For My Friend, With Some Of My Favorite Bedding