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The Link Up: Em’s Top Book And Show Recs, Arlyn’s $9 Game Changing Cleaning Purchase, And A Viral Eyeliner Review

Happy Sunday, everyone. While this is technically the second Sunday of 2026, it really feels like the first since we have officially completed our first week back at work! Our annual kitchen trends post went up, Mal let us into her wonderful 1950s kitchen refresh, and we, of course, talked about organizing (is it January if we don’t??). We are so grateful to be back with all of you. This week, though, was yet another devastating one in our country, and while simply stating that doesn’t create any tangible change, it is important to continue to remind ourselves that THIS IS NOT NORMAL and to find ways to help move us in a safer direction. Regardless of differing personal views, we believe that the majority of us don’t want to live in a place that treats people this way. That’s all we’ll say on that today. For 2026 (and beyond), let us all try to find as many opportunities to be kind and loving while holding each other accountable. Ok, now for the inevitable tone shift jolt… here are this week’s links (they are positive, we promise:))

From Emily: While in Montana over break, failing to learn to ski AGAIN, I was relegated to the hotel lodge by myself (and spa, which was GREAT) and was able to binge a few things. Y’all, I finally finished Verity (by Colleen Hoover, of course). I had started it years ago, but it was so unsettling (I can’t really read much about kids’ deaths without high levels of anxiety), so I put it down and opted for four other Colleen Hoover novels instead (that I subsequently flew through). They are all unsettling, TBH. But over break, I had just finished The Housemaid by Freida McFadden (which I flew through in 2 days) and loved the movie (such a campy blast, but lower your expectations if you haven’t read the book), and I was reminded how engrossing a thriller is on vacation. Then I saw that Verity is coming out next year as a movie with Anne Hathaway, Dakota Johnson, and Josh Hartnett (I’m really enjoying his comeback – he’s so much better than he used to be!). So I dove back into it and, of course, couldn’t put it down. It still IS unsettling, but man, it’s engrossing, and so so good.

But meanwhile, I beg of you to pick up People We Meet On Vacation by Emily Henry RIGHT NOW if you haven’t already read it (you’ll fly through it, although Beach Read is still my favorite of hers). By the time this link is published, I will have watched the much-awaited movie with Emily Bader and Tom Blyth. I “met” Emily in the show My Lady Jane (RIP), which was an incredible show that got cancelled far too young (it was such BS, people LOVED that show and it was so good – I’m blaming it on male executives at Amazon Prime who didn’t get it). But Emily was incredible, and I became an instant fan of her acting. Anyway, thank the media gods that all our favorite books are being turned into movies or TV shows (Every Summer After is also going to be a TV show by Carley Fortune, which I’m so excited about). If you are looking for good recs, head over to Beach Reads & Bubbles, whose taste I trust when it comes to highly entertaining novels (romance, thrillers, and even more literary novels when I dabble in those). Speaking of which – I started The Correspondent and need encouragement to finish (everyone raves, but oof, I was bored so quickly). And then I made it a solid 60% through The Death of Us, which was just so depressing (but so good!) that I put it down because it was bumming me out and opted for Mate by Ali Hazelwood instead. It reminded me of The Wedding People – Deeply dark, but with a lot of levity to it, and such strong storytelling, but ultimately, I didn’t want to live in that world for much longer. LASTLY, OH MY GOSH I CAN’T STOP – I finally finished All Her Fault and WAHOO, the ending was worth the terrible writing of the first few episodes (I still highly recommend it for a binge watch) and I finished The Hunting Wives on New Years Day (well, I picked it back up on the plane back home the day before which I do NOT recommend, lol – the cowboy sitting behind me was either thrilled or wanted to put me in a convent). SO GOOD, but be prepared for some hot lady sex. Speaking of, I’m going to dive into Heated Rivalry this weekend – I’m so excited. January is my month, y’all. Zero social engagements and so much rain, so every excuse to hibernate with good books, TV, and soup.

From Jess: I’m a fairly simple makeup person. I like a warm “natural” look on average with just a few products. But every once in a while, I get really curious about a new product, and Victoria Beckman’s Satin Kajal Liner was at the top of the list. So when I was browsing through the newish French department store Printemps (a MUST SEE if you love design, I left SO inspired) in New York City over the holidays, I noticed that they sold her line. Naturally, I took the opportunity to try out the liner before buying, and my god, it glides on like a dream, with a lot of pigment! And smudges beautifully (my preferred look:)) I bought the Terracotta and Bordeaux colors and have loved them so far. Apparently, getting the VB sharpener is kinda important, which I didn’t buy in the moment, so I just grabbed one of those:)

From Arlyn: My favorite purchases are inexpensive, incredibly useful, and effective. Which is why I’m starting off the year by recommending a pumice toilet bowl wand. I’m certain Jess shared one similar nearly a year ago, but it’s likely time to bubble back up again. When we moved in, I noticed some rings in the toilet, specifically in the downstairs powder bathroom. Assuming it was just a result of sitting vacant for a few months, I assumed a simple bleach scrub was all it needed. I was wrong. Almost three years later, those same rings still exist, no matter how often I clean my bathroom, thanks to hard and high-mineral water. Frustrated and finally wanting to take some real action, I remembered Jess’ pitch to me about it from the past, and I’m so happy to report that I now have ring-free bowls without having to use any harsh chemicals or get my hands dirty. WHAT A RELIEF! If you have stubborn hardwater stains that you’re dealing with, please don’t wait as long as I did to try this solution.

From Gretchen: I’m not sure why, but every so often, I will wake up with an excruciating headache. And no, it’s not the hangover kind (although I’m no stranger to those). But these weird headaches I tend to feel coming on at night, knowing that by morning I’ll wake to a throbbing pain. It sucks. I haven’t found the perfect cure yet (or prevention, obviously), but I have tried all the meds, weighted eye masks, essential oils, caffeine, hydrotherapy–you name it! A combination of these tools usually tends to help, but I’m always on the hunt for a better solution. As I was trying to fall asleep last night, knowing a morning migraine was on the way, I looked for a new fix and stumbled upon this acupressure mat. I’ve heard great things about them and the concept made enough sense to me: a bed full of tiny plastic spikes meant to stimulate pressure points on your body, similar to acupuncture, just without all the needles. It’s supposed to help with relaxation, muscle tension, and, for many, chronic headaches. And for just $18 with a 7 am arrival the next day, I thought it was worth a shot. And guess what? It totally helped! Or at least, it worked very well in combination with a few of my other headache hacks. But once my body settled into the spikes (yes, it’s a little jarring at first), everything unclenched, and I could actually feel my headache slipping away. I really felt a difference when I lightly rolled the head pillow around on my forehead. Something about a bunch of tiny, sharp spikes just seemed to do the trick. I laid on the mat for about 10 minutes and genuinely felt rejuvenated afterwards. I’m going to keep using the mat, headache or not, because I for sure noticed a difference in overall body tension, and the sensation just felt so relaxing.

From Marlee: If you’re looking for ways to get off your screens this year, I highly recommend Puzzlemania – we had this in our gift guide, but I was gifted it for Christmas, and it’s SO fun. I love love love puzzles and look forward to my minis and Wordle every day, so I was so excited to receive this book. It’s essentially just a puzzle workbook that contains a ton of crosswords (all with fun twists), little Wordle puzzles, word hunts, Sudoku variations, and a ton of other mini games that would be fun to work on solo or try doing with your partner or a friend! There’s also a massive unfolding crossword puzzle in the middle that I think I’m going to tear out and hang on our kitchen wall so that guests can try to help us solve it when we have people over. I’m really excited to reach for this and work on it while I drink my coffee or when I’m bored. Happy solving!! <3

From Mallory: I had seen a few people sporting this baseball cap around town and thought it was SO adorable…so I was THRILLED when I opened up a Christmas gift and inside the box was this!! I’ve been wearing it all the time – I absolutely LOVE it.

From Caitlin: I’m here to end the link up on a bit of a sad note: my mom, Brenda, passed away the day after Christmas following a 10 year battle with Renal Cell Carcinoma. (Now you know why we were knocking out those bucket list trips with fervor – remember Antarctica and Australia?) Sharing her with you all was the honor of my life. And I can’t thank Emily and the EHD team enough – they allowed me to step into a full-time caregiver role in Delaware at the top of 2025 without a second thought. (And thank you to Dennis, partner of the millennia, who moved into my childhood home and helped keep the world running.) I don’t think I’ll ever be able to articulate how grateful I’ve been for all of their support – they gave me the gift of quality time spent with the most important woman in my life. You can check out her obituary here (and check out the fawning from her former colleagues and employees here – their words put the biggest smile on my face!). Everything I did was in an attempt to make her proud. I was so, so, so lucky to be her daughter.

That’s it for this week. Thank you for spending this little bit of time with us, and see you tomorrow<3

Opening Image Credits: Design by Mallory Wackerman | Photo by Lyle Nelson | From: Mallory’s 1950s DIY Kitchen Makeover (You Won’t Believe This Before and After)

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KD
6 hours ago

Oh, Caitlin, I am so sorry. I’ve loved reading about your adventures with your Mom and appreciated her practical and wise gift giving recommendations. What a remarkable relationship you two had. Thank you for sharing her with us. Big hugs. I’m so sorry.

Rebekah
5 hours ago

Oh Caitlin, I am so sorry. My prayers are with you. May beautiful memories soften the harshness of grief.

Sally
5 hours ago

I don’t usually read the Sunday posts but for some reason tonight I did and I’m glad.
So deeply sorry to hear of your mother’s passing Caitlin. It’s been three years since I lost my own mother (I was also her caregiver) and losing a parent is very hard (I know you’ve lost two). . I truly believe we lose a little bit of ourselves at the same time. As honoured as you were to share her with this community, we were truly honoured and delighted to hear your stories and there are few things more heartwarming in this crazy world than love and family. Thank you for that and I hope that you are doing as well as possible in the circumstances.
Xx

Kles
4 hours ago

Caitlin, your mom was truly a treasure. I always knew it when you shared your adventures and reading the obit knocked me over. What a woman. You are both lucky to have each other.

Theresa
4 hours ago

Oh, Caitlyn, I am so sorry, and honored that you shared with us.

Molly Czuwara
4 hours ago

Caitlin, I am so sorry for your loss. Beautiful obituary that was a wonderful tribute to your mom.

E
4 hours ago

Caitlin, your obituary for your mom was powerful, funny, heartwarming. What an incredible legacy that Brenda left; you keep her alive with your writing and vibrance. Your ethics have always shone through at EHD, and Brenda will live on in you.

Ariane Stinglhamber
3 hours ago

My deepest condolences, Caitlin… I send you all my love and support to help you through this difficult time. The loss remains, but time eases the pain… Cherish all your memories with her, they are the most precious thing you have.

Sarah
3 hours ago

Caitlin, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother and all you have been experiencing. I am thankful to hear that you’ve felt supported through this journey, and as a reader, I appreciate the opportunity to support a company that recognizes that our families are what is most important. I’m so glad you got to experience those amazing trips with your mom. Your mom sounds like an amazing role model who squeezed every single moment out of what she was given. May we all do the same.

lh
3 hours ago

My sincerest condolences, Caitlin. It’s so hard to lose a parent. Hugs to you!

Caitlin
3 hours ago

What a beautiful and hilarious tribute to your beautiful mother Caitlin 💕 It was an honor to get to know what made her Brenda through your incredible words. I am so sorry for your loss but am also very inspired by her zest for life and your love for each other.

Karen T.
3 hours ago

I’m so sorry to hear about your mom, Caitlin. Hugs.

MH
3 hours ago

Caitlin, I’m a relatively new reader, but I’ve always remembered your travel posts about your adventures with your mom, hoping that I might have similar adventures with my mom (and daughter!) in the future. Also, I read a lot of obituaries as part of my work, and your mom’s is one of the best I’ve ever read. Your mom sounds like she was one of a kind. Offering my sincerest condolences and warmest thoughts.

Cassie
3 hours ago

Caitlin, I am so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful obituary — a life well lived for sure. You were lucky to have her as an example.
And Gretchen, I wanted to say that peppermint oil on my temples always helps when I feel a headache coming on. That paired with a cool breeze (or ceiling fan!) tends to help me tremendously!!!!

Nicole
2 hours ago

Caitlin, I am so, so sorry to hear about your mom. That is one amazing obituary.

Gretchen, just wanted to throw this out there in case you haven’t had it checked, but a dentist can tell you if teeth grinding/clenching is contributing to your headaches. Good luck!!

Emily
2 hours ago

Caitlin- my heart is breaking for you right now. Sending you so much love and healing. What a gift for both of you that you were able to be there together in Delaware. She sounds like an amazing women.

Brigitte
2 hours ago

Dear Caitlin, I am sorry for your loss. With great sympathy, Brigitte

Vera
2 hours ago

Caitlin, I’m so sorry for the loss of your Mom. I feel like I got to know her through your travel posts and her thoughtful gifts, and now through the obituary. What a gift you gave her to make so many wonderful memories together and to be cared for so well. You and Brenda both inspire me. Rest in peace, Brenda.

LouAnn
2 hours ago

Caitlin: Really sorry to hear about your Mom. I always thought it was so cool that the two of you took such ambitious trips together. And I hope your memories of this remarkable relationship help you get through the challenges of grieving. Take care.

Heather
2 hours ago

Caitlin, my heart broke reading that last paragraph. I am so so sorry to read about your mom. I lost my mom in 2016 and miss her every single day. Every time I read about your travels with your mom, it made me so happy. I always thought, what a gift to both Caitlin and her mom. Brenda sounded just plain awesome, and man, was she the best, most thoughtful gift giver or what?! (Les comes pretty close though!) Much love to you. ❤️

Kate J
2 hours ago

Sending much love and deepest condolences to you, Caitlin. Thank you for sharing your amazing mother with us.

Angela
2 hours ago

Sending you so much love, Caitlin. I loved hearing about Brenda and it was so clear what an incredible woman and mom she was. I hope we still get lots of stories of her here, if you’d like to share.

HaP
2 hours ago

So sorry for your loss, Caitlin. So glad you were able to spend so much valuable time with her, but at only 67, it’s always way too little time.
Hope you’ll be supported for the times coming. The first week is mostly so filled with “to do’s” for the funeral that (in my experience and I’m lucky not having lost a parent yet), that it can be hard to come back to normal life afterward. Know that it’s completely fine to have a lot of ups and downs, far longer than the tough first year (which is definitely hard, but loss doesn’t stop after that). Hope you always have someone to hug you, wenn you need it.

Kimberly
1 hour ago

Caitlin, what a beautiful obituary for your incredible mother. I hope that, with time, your memories, both mundane and fantastic, will come to bring you joy. And hoping that you make your 2026 trip in memory of your mom. Seems as though that would be something that she would love.

elise
1 hour ago

Caitlin, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your mom with us. Your tribute to her is beautiful. Sending so much love to you.

Mary Beth
1 hour ago

Caitlin, such sad news. Your mom was always a very inspiring woman to me. Her eagerness to experience life was very clear to me and I really admired her. I am so sorry to read this news.

Lindsay
1 hour ago

Caitlin, so sorry for the loss of your mom. Reading her obituary brought tears to my eyes. She sounded like a wonderful woman and so happy you got to create those memories with her on those trips you took. Hope the memorial went well and you were able to celebrate her incredible life.

Heather
1 hour ago

Caitlin, I’m sorry to hear about your mom. Thank you for sharing a little of her with us.

Heidi
1 hour ago

Caitlin, I am so sorry to hear this. I have loved reading about your adventures with your mom over the years! Thank you for sharing her with us. Sending you love ❤️

Meg
1 hour ago

Caitlin, I’m so so sorry for your loss. Your posts about your trips with your mom have been some of my favorites here and it was always so clear how deeply the two of you loved each other. Wishing you peace and comfort.

Lee
1 hour ago

Caitlin, Thank you for sharing your special mother with us. Your relationship is an inspiration.

Rachel
1 hour ago

Caitlin, I’m so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. I always loved the mentions of her on the blog and could tell you two had a very special relationship. What a beautiful obituary. Sending hugs.

lmdr
1 hour ago

Sending you my deepest condolences, Caitlin. What a gift you gave yourself and your mom, cherishing her with your care and company. May your memories comfort you all the days ahead Xo

ally
46 minutes ago

Caitlin, I am so sorry about the loss of your mom. I’ve loved everything I’ve ever read about her and that obituary was wonderful. Sending you all the love–what an amazing relationship the two of you have.

STACIA
34 minutes ago

Sending you healing thoughts Caitlin. My mother passed away in 2024 and I’m still trying to make sense of it all. Seeing your wonderful travel posts with your Mom was beautiful and inspiring. Take care of yourself.

Lia
30 minutes ago

Caitlin, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I always admired your relationship with her and the amazing adventures you shared together. I also enjoyed the Brenda wisdom that you shared over the years- what a brilliant woman! Thank you, thank you for sharing her with us, and I am so sorry for all you both went through.

Denise K
19 minutes ago

Caitlin, I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this with us. I enjoyed reading about your trips together. So special. This week I was just remembering (and missing) your “Brenda recos”. Pretty sure the standup broom and dustpan I use daily was from her. ❤️

Elisabeth
17 minutes ago

Caitlin, I feel as though I know Brenda from your adventure posts, and now from this beautiful obituary. What a human, what a mom, and what a loss for this world. I’m so sorry for your loss, and hope that moments of peace are finding you during this hard time.

Hilary
13 minutes ago

What a beautiful tribute to your Mom, Caitlin. She sounds like she had a wonderful personality and will be missed by many. I’m so glad you were able to be with her for all of the time she had left at the end of

Vivienne
8 minutes ago

Sending all the love & care to Caitlin and all of Brenda’s loved ones.

Beth
7 minutes ago

I’m so sorry. Your mom has clearly made such a positive impact on so many lives. I’m sending my love to you. ❤️

K
7 seconds ago

Caitlin, I’m so deeply sorry to hear this news. Her obituary is beautiful and her energy fully shines through. I’m so glad that you were able to spend so much time with her, both on your amazing trips, and it sounds like over this last year. Thank you for sharing your relationship with her with us readers. Sending lots of love to you. Take gentle care of yourself.

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