Happy Sunday, everyone. In case you missed it, the PDX gals made another incredibly fun and entertaining YouTube video about the garage’s storage plan (PS IKEA was the star. Please check it out, and if you aren’t subscribed, we’d really appreciate it if you clicked that button too:) Ok, let’s get to the links.
This week’s house tour is from the incredible mind of design studio Claves. It’s a newly rentable townhouse where “where surrealism meets art deco splendour”. You just have to go take a look:)
From Emily: I think the most important link this week is a huge shout-out to Gretchen and Marlee – my PDX DREAM TEAM, who are tag-teaming our YouTube series (amongst so many other jobs). I was nervous to add another platform to my workload, but they are making it so easy, so organic, just like following along with what we are doing, and yet shooting and cutting it in a way that is genuinely entertaining and funny. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, if you are a long-time reader (thank you!) or just landing for the day, watch episode 1 and episode 2 of the carriage house re-org (and yes, you’ll get a tour soon, I promise). And then for the love of the algorithm gods, like and subscribe if you are into it, heck, comment and share, too! (it makes a massive difference on how YouTube shares it with others). We are having so much fun, and they are working so hard on it despite both just learning on the job, so give them some love – they deserve it!
Also From Emily: Shout out to our new AI comment tech (thank you, Caitlin!) – We now have AI that can detect when a comment is negative and filters it out for human approval, while all the other comments get auto-published immediately. This is extra exciting because even though we’ve monitored comments for years I had to still see them as “pending” if I wanted to go into the backend and comment back to people (you have to be signed in to comment back as me, and once signed in you see all the pending in the same feed). While 95% of the comments are lovely, supportive, or even constructive (which we generally find helpful), the typical few meant to ruin our day made it hard to go into the backend, so I would often avoid it. While I have thick skin, the distraction and derailment was damaging and even worse, they could made me more cynical about the world at large – so bummed that people found such pleasure in saying intentionally mean things, happily ruining the day of me and my team that work so hard to put good things into the world. My anxiety would spike, and then dark thoughts about my career/future would spiral (helpful to literally no one, including and especially my wonderful team). So this tech is FANTASTIC because I can go in and engage immediately with your non-negative published comments, then someone on my team will also read through the suspicious comments and publish those later in the day, should they be appropriate. That’s all to say that if you don’t see your comment published immediately, it’s because the AI has found something in it that it thinks is negative. This has happened to me twice – I wrote “shoot” in one, and then “I hate…” in another, and it held those two for approval. So essentially, the AI tech can filter out what it deems “negative” and then a human goes in and publishes or not, but meanwhile, I don’t see any of them, and all the positive comments or questions get published immediately. Take my Belize post (the first post we tried this with), I was able to go in and with confidence answer all the questions, knowing that it was safe (and I wasn’t going to read a bunch of hateful things about my family, etc). This won’t be perfect, by any means, but it’s only been a week, and it’s been really fun to engage in the comments in a way that feels totally healthy and safe. Three cheers for using AI for good and EHD.
Also Also From Emily: Attn Portland folks (and anyone else who needs encouragement to be a tourist in your own state). We’ve lived here for 4 years now and I couldn’t love the nature of the PNW more (sure, Nov – Feb can be rough, but once we started skiing it got a lot better- rain here means snow up there). I’ve become quite nature-obsessed (it’s the main reason to live here, IMHO), but like the Virgo + Enneagram 7 that I am, I want a really fun weekend agenda. So I have four books that I reference ALL THE TIME. I know that you can get a lot of info on the internet, but I don’t love being on the internet all the time, so I have my own little library that I reference on Saturday morning while I plan out how I’m going to torture my family through waterfall hikes. 1. Oregon and Washington 50 Hikes with Kids by Wendy Gorton. The kids will thumb through this and help pick, too. 2. Portland Family Adventures by Jen Stevenson. A fantastic, thorough city guide of all the best things to do with different aged kids (inside activities included – and day trips). 3. The Portland Book of Dates by Eden Dawn and Ashod Simonian. I LOVE this one – yes, more for grownup dates, but gives you a lot of good ideas of really unique things you can do, odd sites to see, not just restaurants or more predictable date night stuff. 4. Citi x 60: Portland (60 local creatives bring you the best of the city). This one is more about cool design, art, and creatives – so less family stuff, but if you have friends in town, a great insiders perspective of inspiring stuff. Also please let me know in the comments if you want my guide of “what do do while visiting Portland” – I’m not an expert (again, only 4 years back here) but I have my favorite SOLID hikes that please every Californian that visits us, the restaurants that hit every time, the bike rides that avoid cars, the parks that wow even in the crappier months, etc. I love an insider’s itinerary, so just ask and I’ll write it all up:) Obviously buy local when possible (Powells!) but I linked up for convenience.
From Gretchen: If you’re like me and love the smell of sunscreen or just wish you could bottle up and wear the scent of a sunny beach day, you absolutely can. And don’t be surprised if people compliment you on it! Anthropologie’s “Beach Trip” perfume has been my go-to smell this summer. It’s light and airy, slightly floral, a little coconut-y, and neither is too intense. It smells perfectly sunscreen-y to me, and I just can’t stop spraying it. Perfumes normally cost a pretty penny, but Anthro’s line is only $24 for a full-size bottle. A few of the reviews mention the smell subsides after a while, which I haven’t really noticed, because I have a little trick for that; When I rub a light layer of vaseline on my skin first and then spray, the smell stays on me wayyy longer. But beware, you will get complimented when going in for a hug!
From Marlee: I’m always looking for shirts that are a step up from a t-shirt or tank top, but nothing too complicated – this shirt from Madewell is exactly that – I grabbed it in white, but I might have to go back for the striped one. It’s a super simple loose fit, but I love how it has a little cinch in the waist and drapes over the sides. It falls right above my hips (I would say I have a somewhat shorter torso, so it might be more cropped for someone with a longer torso), but I like that I can make it more cropped if I’m wearing it with something more high-waisted. It’s a super soft fabric, not see-through, and super breezy/airy. I got a size XS because they were OOS of S at the time, and it definitely fits fine, but I would size up next time for an even looser, drapier fit. I can’t stop wearing it – I’ve repeated the same outfit 4 times in the last week:)
From Arlyn: As I was running out of my giant Costco moisturizing shampoo and conditioner, I wanted something lighter, fresher, and easier to travel with. Years ago, on my old personal blog, I did a review of shampoo bars, and the one from The Earthling Co. was by far my favorite, so I tapped back into that this time around, and I’m so happy I did. My hair is clean, feels bouncy and not weighed down, and I don’t have two enormous plastic bottles taking up room on my shower caddy. WIN WIN! I also picked up the conditioner bar and this silicone storage/travel case, which I keep right in my shower to stash my bars. Oh, and the best part? Everything is 20% off all month for their Plastic Free July Sale, so stock up!
From Mallory: Have you ever packed a suitcase for a trip and forgotten something critical?! Well, I packed for Hawaii and forgot bathing suits (cool!), so I had to do that classic “SOS, I need to go get a bathing suit or two right now” shopping trip. I then stumbled upon the most affordable and SUPER cute swimsuit!! It was $20 for the bottoms and $25 for the top, and has the cutest little ball details on the tie, plus the fabric looks expensive. They have it in white and red, and when I tell you…this is now one of my favorite suits ever.
Also from Mallory: I snagged this cover up set (top and bottom) from H&M when I was there too…it fits great and the stripes are so adorbs.
From Jess: I was bopping around with my cousin on Sunday, and we stopped into RG, a small, woman-founded, affordable jewelry shop, in Atwater Village. While there are some pieces that are a little more expensive, most of what I saw (and bought) was so reasonable. I got these thin, everyday gold hoops and these sweet little tri-crystal cluster studs for my new second hole. Both were under $50 and I love how special…but simple they are:)
Also From Jess: I finally invested in a couple of new bras that I LOVE. I’ve tried Third Love, Negative Underwear, etc., and was never all that impressed. I really dislike any added padding, so I’d been wearing inexpensive mesh cup ones that were on their last leg. Then, when one of my best friends was visiting last month, she was raving about her Fleur du Mal bra. I tried it on and immediately ordered it. I first ordered the lace one in black because their “t-shirt bra” was out of stock. Once I got it, it was the only bra I wanted to wear because it was comfortable but still a little sexy. When the t-shirt bra came back in stock, I hit add to cart and got it a few days ago. The cup is soft (not padded!) and so smooth under tops. It’s also just so freaking flattering. I feel incredible in both of them, which is such a good feeling. No more kinda sad bras that fit “good enough”.
From Caitlin: I was lucky enough to spend this weekend with my mom, and she treated me to the cutest pair of summer pajamas! They’re from Jockey (!!!), they’re super budget-friendly, and the top and bottom can be purchased separately to best fit your sizing. I LOVE THEM – the photos don’t do them justice! I’m obsessed with the piping detailing on the cami and around the legs; I can’t get enough of the ribbon tie on the bottom; and they’re SO COMFORTABLE to sleep in. I got an XL on top (though I could have sized down here, and I’m a 36F!) and an XL on bottom, which feels great on me. They’re so cute that I feel excited to change out of my daytime lounge clothes and into my nighttime lounge clothes! Highly recommend for any summer vacations, slumber parties, or just as a general pick-me-up. I slept in them every night this week and am so pleased by the price:value ratio on them – they feel like a splurgy pair of Printfresh PJs at a fraction of the cost. Thanks Brenda!!!
We also wanted to give our love and support to those affected by the Texas flood. More than ever, it feels as though there is a never-ending occurrence of unbelievable harm and devastation happening, whether it be by man or by nature, and it’s especially heartbreaking when children are involved. We are so grateful for all of the people who are on the ground helping.
Thank you so spending a little time with us today and see you tomorrow for a really great reveal/tour. xx
Opening Image Credits: Photos by Kaitlin Green
I’m so happy that you’re able to avoid the negative comments, something I always thought had to be so hard to deal with. I mean, this is free content! So generous! I’ve been reading and using your site for years and years— even my husband knows to check before doing something like hanging a curtain rod. So thank you!
Ditto this comment!
its awesome. gets me excited again to come here :) thank you so much for reading for so long – it truly means so much. xx
Yes to the Portland guide! My husband and I are visiting next month and would love sime good insider tips!
Hey kelley! i’m working on it but see my reply to Jill below for a quick and dirty. I’m going to start a running list to keep adding to (i haven’t even had coffee yet so i’m sure my brain is going to kick in soon and remember so many more). xx
I’d love a Portland guide please!
Another vote for a Portland guide!
We will be in Portland later this week. I would love the guide!
Hey Jill, I won’t be able to pull a guide together by then so here’s a quick and dirty off the top of my head and neglecting so much i’m sure: Hot Yai chicken, Phuket, L’echelle (new and french), soooo many good food carts (Eater has great roundups of the best). shopping – urbanite, Cargo (so many more but those are near eachother and represent a ton of Portland makers). day trips – the gorge – Horsetail falls (hike up to the upper one, its not long but its steep with a great payoff – in stories today, its my favorite), wine country is incredible (Mcminnvills), Aurora for antiquicing (silver falls isn’t that much further and its incredible – the 3 mile hike has so many payoffs). Kennedy school and Edgefield are fun, too – so unique and portland. To walk around – Sellwood and Nob hill (Northwest 21 or 23rd). get on the river – do a tour! I love a guided tour, personally. we also did a bike and hike tour up the gorge once and it was rad (and loved that they took care of everything for us). I’m really not an expert but I have my… Read more »
I’ve lived in Beaverton for a couple of years, and I would love your Portland guide. Where to bike? Yes, please! Waterfalls other than Multnomah? Awesome! Restaurants that are always enjoyed (and parking tips)? That would be awesome!
Also adding that Portland’s stunningly updated airport (recently rated #1 in the country) feels like a huge draw. Maybe Portland tourism will partner with you for a series???
ooh that’s interesting! Ann we bike willamette park (SW portland, boat launch) down to KingTide (a random restaurant with the best people watching). mostly car -free and along the river and into town. through south waterfront (which has great ice cream that we usually hit on the way back). And we have done Horsetail falls so many times (go up to the upper falls, only 20 minutes and straight up but huge pay off). Latourelle falls is also great (longer, but kids did it easily) and we are doing Bridal veil this weekend. Stop by Sugarpine on the way home (Troutdale). Multnomah is just too crowded and the hike has a lot of cliff edges that give me anxiety with kids.
I would love a copy of “ things to do while visiting Portland”. Thank you
I don’t believe in trashing a blogger, but at the same time the person is a professional and, yes, making money from their blog (even if reader doesn’t pay). I was a journalist for 40 years and boy did the negative comments come in. Sometimes they were on target though.
I don’t believe all “negative” comments should be censored. And a professional should be able to handle them.
I agree with you and I’m the sort that would want to plow through the gripes first but I see an AI screen like this as a useful time management tool. If Emily has X amount of time to respond to comments and filtering negativity helps her focus on that particular task and results in her being more engaged in the comments, that sounds like a win.
Constructive criticism is obviously good and it sounds like that’s not at all the ones targetted. I once landed accidentally on an EHD reddit snark thread and it was a huge bummer to read the comments. They were so gratuitously vile it made me really sad. People on the internet can be incredibly mean to influencers and I can see how an AI filter would be incredibly beneficial for navigating these comments.
But this kind of blogging isn’t journalism. Many home design and DIY bloggers/creators have opened their hearts and homes to people every single day for years. It seems like a kind of vulnerability that most journalists could not relate to. Someone says a journalist is not smart in a letter to the editor or in an online comment section? Ok, sure. Someone tells a creator her kids are ugly? That feels different. I’m sure nasty comments sting for journalists, but they don’t offer themselves up for inspection in the same way as someone like Emily Henderson.
“That’s what they signed up for!” Maybe, but these are real people who deserve boundaries, not a Boomer from a very different career field criticizing another woman’s professionalism.
Surprised that the derogatory use of the term “Boomer” wasn’t filtered out.
it actually was – i had to manually approve this one. ha :)
So generalized use of derogatory terms is okay? Because that’s what that is. Not trying to be argumentative, but if a higher tone of general respect is what you’re looking for, that particular terminology and usage doesn’t seem a fit.
Caitlin, as someone who is in on the cusp between the Boomer age group and the next generation, I am puzzled by the general disdain for people in that age range. As if we’re free to consider an entire age-range of people with disregard and even contempt. Consider this a vote not to approve comments that sweepingly categorize people by age, and a vote for treating people (of any age) with kindness.
I take issue with this on several levels.
First, my initial sentence made it clear I don’t approve of trashing bloggers. Perhaps should have clarified that means personal attacks of any kind (and certainly not of kids).
Second, a blogger indeed can be a type of journalist and a journalist can be a blogger. What does one call the variety of writing on something like Substack: Writers offer reporting, analysis, commentary, editorials, features, recipes, etc. Just like a traditional newspaper and many blogs. I have written blogs myself.
Finally, I didn’t criticize her professionalism. I said she was a professional and would be able to tolerate some disagreement. And I’m proud to be a “boomer.”
OF COURSE some journalists are bloggers and vice versa. Emily and her team are not journalists.
Saying “a professional should be able to handle” negative comments and implying that Emily cannot DOES make it seem like you are criticizing her professionalism.
I should not have used a derogatory ageist term.
I stand by the idea that for a much older person in a VERY different profession at a VERY different time to compare her experience to Emily’s seems like apples and oranges.
Good morning, long time reader and also a resident for the past 20 years in Kerrville Texas. Our town hearts are so broken. We own a local business and our team is doing a linen drive, but thinking of other ways to help. I don’t know if the Emily Henderson team has ever done a blog post (I can’t find one) of a list including links to rebuild after you’ve lost everything. It feels like an overwhelming task to find or even think of the many things to replace an entire home. Do y’all have any suggestions or maybe there is a website to go to that has links for all those items? Our community is so generous and we are all doing everything we can, but it’s so many homes and an overwhelming amount of items. The resources and links to items that these families need to purchase need to be of quality but also take into consideration budget. A few of the families that we are working with received $4000 from FEMA, but you can’t rebuild a whole home on that. Hugs from Texas.
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Here to say you can count me among those interested in your insider’s itinerary for Portland. We will be traveling through the area in September, so don’t know if that timing will be feasible for a write up but the guides you linked are great to have.
Got a kick out of the videos and have subscribed!
I was so thrilled and happy when you stopped linking Target and Amazon…but now back to linking amazon “for convenience?” bookshop.org is just as convenient and doesn’t funnel money to a corporate republican conglomerate. I would respectfully request that you go back to not linking to amazon.
Oh, I asked this on the long drapery post but got no answer. Hope you don’t mind if I ask you instead. Why are people supporting the Target boycott? It was initiated by the Black church, an organization that doesn’t generally support LGBTQ rights or even same-sex marriage. I am not trying to be confrontational. Please someone enlighten me.
Because they ended their DEI initiatives after the current administration was elected. I haven’t set foot in Target or visited them online since, and I was a big fan before. There are a lot of articles out there on this. Hope that’s helpful info!
They actually brought all of them back and added some. It’s a bummer to see this old narrative still circulating. They are way more DEI friendly than Amazon or Walmart. But everyone wrote them off, so no coverage of their improvement. They even made it way easier to shop Asian and women owned brands too. I feel like I got what I wanted out of the boycott – they brought back pride merch, the Black owned category, and they added more classifiers – so I am back at Target. Understand that many would rather see them go out of business entirely. I would just hate to only have Walmart left in my town!
Heather, could you link to evidence to what you’re saying? I’m finding nothing that indicates they’ve brought back DEI initiatives. I see they rebranded them as “Belonging with Bullseye,” so perhaps that’s what you’re referring to? I’m genuinely curious and it sounds like you have the information. I can’t find anything that verifies what you’re saying.
I’m really curious about the AI filtering parameters. Obviously someone talking negatively about your family should be flagged, but what about something like “I’m not crazy about that color green” or “I’m so confused about the decision to put a window seat looking directly onto someone’s roof”? Will those be published? It seems like respectful good AND bad comments regarding design would lead to a healthy, diverse comment section rather than the “I LOVE IT!” echo chamber. Plus I really miss those days when I could sit down with a cup of tea and read the comments of people who were offended by the most innocent thing. It was highly entertaining!
The way I understand this the AI filter is literally this – a filter, which might flagg (depending on parameters) all of those comments and corall them for a human on the team to approve. (Which also means they still have to read them, which I am sure sucks <3). And as far as I know this is how they've been doing it for the past few years anyway. The only difference being that before the AI filter they had to approve ALL comments. So now positive comments will be published immediately and negative (sounding) comments will be published upon approval. Which means – I would assume, since these are the same people as before – the comment section stays exactly as critical as it was before. Which I would say is pretty critical, or at least constructive – the EHD gals have always invited healthy debate in their comments, which I am sure is not always easy to do!!!
This is a treasure trove of resources! Also apologies for times I’ve been critical and/or pretentious! Truly. Not sure if I was ever flagged but I know Ive been salty when it comes to architecture (usually after a long work day in architecture). Bring a healthy mentally in a daily practice and wip.
Forgive me,
enneagram 1 that does in fact love coming here every couple days
Caitlin changing from daytime lounge clothes to her nighttime lounge clothes is probably the most relatable thing I’ve seen recently. Cheers!
I’d love a copy of your Portland guide. Thank you!
Yes please to a Portland guide! I live in Bend and go up to Portland frequently and I’d love to read your recs!
I definitely anything that gets Emily pumped to interact with her fans is positive! So that’s a big plus. Congrats to the team for finding a work around! I do wonder about the potential echo chamber effect though? What if I really love the content but want to see more of Emily’s old-school funky style? What if I comment about that but it’s just filtered out because it’s not entirely glowing? I guess like most things details matter.
I think a Portland Guide would be fantastic! Thank you.
Good for you! I deal with negative comments almost daily. Glad you found a way around them. Kathy